Quality Time

My primary love language is quality time, and I can see that not only in my relationship, but it spills over into all my relationships. I love nothing more than being with the one's I love and care about. Sure, I know that quality time is not about just being with the other person, but about giving your undivided attention to that person. Quality time for me could be taking a walk together, going for a swim, having a picnic, or evening staining a deck and fence together, as long as it includes meaningful conversation. I don't need undivided attention when I am filled with love just doing something and talking together. I am finding more and more that this is true in the relationships with my daughters. Last night I took G to the water park, just the two of us. We had some great bonding time with no pesky little sisters keeping her from doing what she wanted to do. We met friends at the water park, which for me, just enhanced the evening. If you want to know more about your love language or that of your partner here is a quick on-line survey.